I might be a little biased, but here’s the truth: your wedding invitations matter. They’re the first detail your guests will see, setting the tone for your celebration and giving a glimpse into the experience ahead. That’s why working with the right wedding invitation designer is so important. Someone who not only understands your style but can bring it to life with purpose and personality.
If we haven’t met yet, I’m the designer behind Kindly Delivered. I specialize in custom wedding invitations and day-of stationery for couples who care deeply about the details. I guide you through every step of the process with clarity, creativity, and a whole lot of heart—so your paper goods feel as personal and elevated as the rest of your day.
In this post, I’m sharing exactly what to ask your invitation designer before you book. From customization to communication (and a few things you might not have thought to ask), these questions will help you feel informed and confident heading into the design process.
If you’re already feeling a connection to Kindly Delivered, I’d love for you to explore the experience here or reach out to me directly. Let’s make something beautiful together.

What Customization Options Do You Offer?
When it comes to custom wedding invitations, the possibilities truly are endless—but it’s important to ask your wedding invitation designer exactly what’s available (especially if there’s a particular feature you already love, like letterpress or foil).
Personally, I offer a wide range of customization options designed to reflect your style and tell your story. That includes premium paper selections (matte, textured, or something with a little more sheen), specialty finishes like foil stamping or letterpress, and thoughtful design details that feel distinctly you.
If you’re dreaming of something elegant and refined, we can keep things classic. Prefer something more playful or modern? We’ll build around that. I also love including personal touches (like envelope liners with custom artwork, venue sketches, or nods to your favorite places or florals). These elements not only elevate your suite visually but also make it feel meaningful from the very first glance.
The more we personalize, the more your guests will feel that intentionality. And trust me, they’ll notice!
Curious what it’s actually like to work with a wedding invitation designer? I’ve shared five things every couple should expect—from communication to design support. Read the full blog here.
How Long Does Your Design Process Take, Including Proofing and Printing?
When thinking about what to ask your invitation designer, this question should be near the top of your list. Designing custom wedding invitations is a multi-step process. Knowing what to expect from the beginning helps everything go more smoothly.
Once your design is finalized, I’ll send over a digital proof so you can review everything with fresh eyes. This step is essential for catching small tweaks or last-minute changes. After your approval, we move into production. Whether that includes digital printing, foil stamping, or letterpress, the timeline can vary based on your chosen features and quantities.
From there, each suite is assembled with care and prepared for mailing. (And if you’re including hand-calligraphed envelopes, we’ll build in extra time for that too. Those beautiful details take patience and precision.)
Having a clear understanding of each stage helps us stay ahead of deadlines and avoid last-minute stress. I always create a custom timeline for every couple I work with, so you’ll know exactly what to expect each step of the process.
What Kind of Timeline Do You Recommend for Ordering Custom Wedding Invitations?
This is a thoughtful follow-up to the previous question and one that every couple should ask when speaking with a wedding invitation designer. Understanding when to begin the design process helps ensure you get the full experience—without feeling rushed.
If you’re working within a shorter timeframe, your designer may offer adjustments to fit your schedule, such as skipping hand-calligraphy or focusing on a streamlined design. (At Kindly Delivered, all invitations are fully custom, so I tailor each timeline to your unique needs and goals.)
Personally, I believe in clear expectations from the very beginning. I create a personalized timeline for every client I work with, outlining each step so you know exactly when design, proofing, printing, and mailing will take place. This kind of structure doesn’t just support the creative process—it also reflects the level of care I bring to every detail.
Will You Guide Me Through Invitation Etiquette and Wedding Invitation Wording?
When figuring out what to ask your invitation designer, this is one of the most important wedding invitation questions to ask. Wording and etiquette can get surprisingly tricky. Not all wedding invitation designers include this level of support, so it’s worth understanding what guidance you’ll receive before you book.
Personally, I believe that helping you navigate wedding invitation wording and invitation etiquette is a meaningful part of the design process. From how to word a formal invitation to navigating sensitive scenarios (like kid-free weddings or blended family dynamics), these are details that deserve thoughtful handling.
If you’re looking for more on these topics, I’ve written a full blog post all about wedding invitation wording and another one on wedding invitation etiquette to help guide you through the basics.

Do You Have Suggestions for Paper Types, Envelope Sizes, or Other Design Details?
When it comes to what to ask your invitation designer, this is a great wedding invitation question to ask. Especially if you’re looking for guidance on the finer details that make a suite truly custom. When it comes to paper types, envelope sizes, and other details, there’s so much to consider. When I call myself a custom invitation designer, I truly mean that each and every decision we make together regarding your wedding invitation suite is just that: custom. I believe in working collaboratively with you, listening to your ideas, and providing suggestions based on my experience. It’s not just about creating beautiful invitations; it’s about telling your unique love story through every detail.
For example, the type of paper you choose can significantly impact the overall look and feel of your invitation. There’s a wide range of options: from cotton paper, double thick paper, textured eggshell, or smooth stock paper. The choice depends on your wedding theme and personal style.
Then, there are the little extras that add personality and elegance:
- Envelope liners that reveal a pop of color or a subtle pattern
- Wax seals, velvet ribbons, or custom stamps that elevate the presentation
- Standard or square envelopes, depending on the look you’re going for
These decisions don’t have to feel overwhelming, that’s where my expertise comes in. I’ll guide you through each choice, offering suggestions that align with your vision and style.
What Is Your Minimum Order Quantity for Custom Designs?
This is one of the most practical wedding invitation questions to ask—and a key detail when considering what to ask your invitation designer before booking. Especially if you’re planning a more intimate celebration, understanding the designer’s minimums can help set realistic expectations for your investment.
In my case, I have a minimum spend of $1,000 for custom wedding invitations. This allows me to dedicate the necessary time and resources to create a unique and high-quality product for each couple. When we work together, you have my full attention.
So, whether you’re inviting 20 guests or 200, you’ll receive my full attention, a high-touch experience, and custom design work that reflects your story and style. The process remains the same: thoughtful, collaborative, and rooted in quality from start to finish.
What Communication Methods Do You Prefer?
It goes without saying that you’ll be working closely with whomever you choose to be your wedding invitation designer. Naturally, you’ll want your preferred communication methods to match yours!
As a custom invitation designer, I believe that clear and efficient communication is key to creating your perfect wedding invitations. For me personally, email is the preferred method of communication. It allows me to easily keep track of our conversations, share design ideas or drafts, and respond in a detailed, thoughtful manner.
Email also gives you the freedom to write to me whenever inspiration strikes or a query arises. There’s no need to worry about business hours.

What to Ask Your Wedding Invitation Designer Before You Book
Your wedding invitations are more than just paper—they’re the first glimpse your guests get into your celebration. Asking the right questions helps ensure you find a wedding invitation designer who understands your style and can bring your vision to life with care.
At Kindly Delivered, I design custom wedding invitations and stationery with personality, purpose, and a whole lot of heart. If you’re ready to create something beautiful, click here to get in touch, or learn more about working together. And while you’re waiting to hear from me (I’m quick, I promise), come say hello over on Instagram for a peek behind the scenes.